Entfremdung

Entfremdung bezeichnet einen individuellen oder gesellschaftlichen Zustand, in dem eine ursprünglich natürliche Beziehung (zwischen Menschen, Menschen und Arbeit, Menschen und dem Produkt ihrer Arbeit sowie von Menschen zu sich selbst) aufgehoben, verkehrt, ge- oder zerstört wird.

Der Begriff geht auf die lateinischen Wörter alienatio (Entfremdung, Entäußerung, das Weggeben einer Sache in fremden Besitz, Abfall) und alienare (veräußern, entfremden, entzweien, in fremde Gewalt bringen, in fremde Hände geben) zurück, womit die klassische bürgerliche englische politische Ökonomie die “Veräußerung” eines Gegenstandes, der dadurch seinem Produzenten “entfremdet” wird, und die naturrechtlichen Theorien vom Gesellschaftsvertrag des 18. Jahrhunderts die “Übertragung” (Die Veräußerung, den “Verlust”) der ursprünglichen Freiheit an eine dem Individuum fremd gegenüberstehende Macht (Gesellschaft, Herrscher) bezeichnen.^[1][2]

Begriff

1. „Entfremdung“ ist der gesellschaftlich vorangetriebene und unumkehrbare Prozess

Who can help me? Feels like no one’s there, when you have bills in the thousands because of court proceedings when all you want to do is protect your daughter 😞

So the inevitable happened, it was only a matter of time before it would of done anyway and maybe I shouldn’t even be writing about it on here. But I need to get it out, I need to scream but I can’t!

Back in July of 2016 my daughter told me her half brother from her “father” had been sexually abusing her she’s only 6 him 9 a repeated pattern of what he done to my sons when I was with his dad.

Court never listened to me wouldn’t even entertain what he did to my boys, so he was given no extra supervision when my daughter was having contact. My daughter told her “father” what had been happening…

Apart from one hour spent with my youngest child at a Contact Centre six weeks ago, my ex-partner continues to prevent me from seeing my three children. I last had contact with all three of my children just over 8 months ago. The amount of money spent by both my ex-partner and myself is probably now nearing £10,000. I have also overcome unfounded safeguarding concerns against me. My ex-partner’s intention is to keep my children away from me and my intention is to co-parent.

Numerous interventions and contact sessions were ordered by a recent Court Order. My ex-partner shrewdly attended each session/intervention with the children in attendance. However she refused to enter the premises of each location on every occasion, and on each occasion ‘blamed’ the children for their ‘refusal to see me.’ My ex-partner has now breached most of these Court Orders with no legal consequences currently being placed on her.  All planned interventions have since been halted…

This week I am writing up the final chapters of my case notes in three cases where we have successfully treated parental alienation.  I thought it would be useful to share these (heavily disguised of course), so that what happens after our intervention is made visible. So much of our work takes place behind closed doors and it can be difficult for people to understand the interventions and outcomes of what we do because of this. By making such vignettes available we aim to show what we do and how we do it. We will share more of this information at our forthcoming clinical seminars, news of which will be posted here shortly.

Case 1:  This is a case of two children who we  removed from their mother in a direct transfer of residence ordered by the court.

The children had not seen their father for almost four years…